The Value of Being Disconnected PDF E-mail
Emily S. MacDonald   
Tuesday, 17 April 2007

 

I once had a ripe sense of adventure.

 

Fifteen years ago, I spent seven months wandering the streets of Australia, New Zealand and Fiji, partaking in daredevil activities and socializing with fellow travelers who shared my curious and open-minded approach to life. I am proud that my experiences were shaped by the in-person social interactions with fellow free-spirits over a cup of coffee in a random coffee shop in Ovalau, Fiji, at a hostel in Byron Bay, Australia and during an earthquake in Christchurch, New Zealand.

 

Many days, the rising sun would wake me from my deep, hard-earned slumber ‑ often enjoyed in the back of a 1978 Toyota Corolla station wagon ‑ and my daily mission consisted of repacking my backpack and heading to my “office” to retrieve long-awaited and eagerly anticipated letters from loved ones and friends. I charted my travel itinerary based on the next closest, and logical, American Express Travel Services office I would come across, because the power of my personal mail was my only tangible connection to the goings-on back home. Other travel essentials consisted of an earmarked and highlighted Lonely Planet travel guide and a phone card to fund my weekly calls home – often made from a desolate pay phone or packed phone bank.

 

I lavished my independence and willingly embraced my ability to completely separate from reality.

 

Lonely Planet recently launched lonelyplanet.tv, an online destination – and companion to lonelyplanet.com – for travel enthusiasts who long to view clips, trade travel tips, post classifieds, discuss underground haunts and more with independent souls traveling the world. The site is intriguing, informative and engaging. I have spent many hours obsessing about how my travels would have been impacted by the recent onslaught of technological advancements and growth of social networks.

 

Fifteen years later, my heart races when technological challenges or simple scheduling conflicts impact my ability to seamlessly connect with others. I have three e-mail addresses and two cell phone numbers, and I research and book all travel online. I regularly share photos via Snapfish and Flickr, gather all daily news through RSS feeds, communicate with friends daily via e-mail and only gather my snail mail when I remember to visit the mailbox.

 

My mind has been wandering lately about whether or not I am capable of living out of a backpack again. Could I possibly let lonelyplanet.com and my online social networks be my guide? Probably. But my experiences on the road taught me the power of word-of-mouth interactions and enabled me to truly appreciate the value of the written word. I also cannot imagine how I could completely separate from reality and enjoy traveling without checking my e-mail, posting photos and calling home whenever I please.

 



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oh how i miss the southern hemisphere
written by boyd, April 17, 2007 09:42 AM
I went on a trip just like this when I graduated college. It was AMAZING. And we did have e-mail at the time. I would say that I still felt quite disconnected though...but it was by choice. I e-mailed where you wrote letters and called. Part of me wishes I'd written more letters because then there would be more concrete memories. All of the e-mails have been purged.

I think the main thing about a trip like that is you can be as disconnected as you want to be. Staying in hostels and traveling with complete strangers can really relax you and help you forget about the constant beep of a new e-mail. Thomas Friedman has a great article on it as well called The Age of Interruption. See it here: http://www.pierretristam.com/Bobst/library/wf-227.htm

There definitely is true value in "disconnecting" for a while.
the new luxury travel
written by LT, April 17, 2007 10:19 AM
Traveling for disconnection like this is the new luxury...if you can engineer unavailability and going offline, tell us how! (Even if you use online planning tools to get there...)
Large Tuna out.
An Addiction
written by gina, April 17, 2007 03:05 PM
I think it is very easy to disconnect it is more of a matter of wanting to disconnect. As much as I love getting emails from friends during the day I find it so much more meaningful when someone has actually taken the time to pick out a card and write a special message.
And while I do heart my cell phone I do not heart having to overhear other people’s private conversations. I mean are you really that important that you have to take a call while you are on the treadmill at the gym right next to me? No, you are not that important and your call can wait. I think people are addicted to this feeling of always being in the know and fear they will miss out on something if they happen to disconnect for just a minute. But instead I think they are missing out on taking value of just being in the moment.
Silence is a Luxury Brand...
written by Eric Raymond, April 17, 2007 06:45 PM
Disconnection, I think you can get. It's like losing weight to a certain extent. As Gina mentions, you have to really want to overcome some addictions. In the short run, you might even suffer for it.

But silence? Try and get it in public. Even the library is no refuge. One reason for the personal media player's ubiquity is the consumer saying, "Well, at least I get to choose the noise." BOSE is banging away with noise canceling headphones, right?

Where is the natural/holistic health company that will have the smarts to partner with a microhotel company and start dropping sound-proof "quiet rooms" for individuals who frequent major airports?

E.

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